Making Space for What Matters Most
Personal financial planning is something we go through together, evolving as we age and
organize our lives. It’s a process that’s ongoing, unique, and deeply personal—reminding us that each stage brings new perspectives and needs. Recently, I was reminded of that truth in a very personal way.
One of my clients shared how she refinished her floors before selling her home. It raised the value of the sale, but what struck me most was her reflection: “I wish I had gifted myself those floors years ago.” That comment stayed with me. It wasn’t just about home improvement—it was about prioritizing ourselves, timing, and the choices we make to enhance our lives.
What Decluttering Teaches Us About Life and Legacy
Inspired by her story, my wife Kitty and I decided to refinish our own floors and paint our walls. It sounded simple, but the process required us to box up everything and move out for a while. In doing so, we uncovered artifacts of meaning—items tied to memories, milestones, and identities. Some brought laughter. Others made us pause and ask: Why are we holding on to this? Are we ready to let go?
Those questions are powerful. They’re not just about possessions; they’re about life. Letting go creates space—not only in our homes but in the space we create for new possibilities—for what matters most in the time we have left to live.
This experience also reminded me of something I see often in my work: the intersection of financial planning, legacy, and family. When we delay decisions—whether about home improvements, downsizing, or organizing our belongings—we risk leaving our heirs with uncertainty and stress. Too often, we hold onto things for the sake of our loved ones, but it’s worth asking ourselves: Wouldn’t they rather receive these gifts and memories while we’re still here to share them?
Aligning Your Financial Plan with Your Values
Thoughtful planning isn’t only about investments or retirement accounts. It’s about aligning your resources with your values and your vision for the future. It’s about asking yourself:
- What do I want to keep?
- What do I want to pass on?
- What am I ready to release, so I can welcome more meaning?
These aren’t easy questions, but they’re essential. They help us live intentionally and ensure that our legacy reflects who we are—not just what we own.
If you’ve been thinking about making changes—whether refinishing floors, decluttering, or starting a conversation about your estate—don’t wait for “someday.” Gift yourself the improvements, the clarity, and the peace of mind now. Your future self—and your family—will thank you.
Financial Planning with Purpose at AAF Wealth Management
At AAF Wealth Management, we believe financial planning is about more than numbers. It’s about creating a life that feels complete and a legacy that speaks for itself. If you’re ready to explore these conversations, we’re here to help.
These insights were contributed by Carmen Grinkis, PhD, CLTC, CLU®, CFP®, Co-Managing Partner & Wealth Advisor, AAF Wealth Management.
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